Wednesday, August 10, 2005
坐在巷口的那对男女
<坐在巷口的那对男女> 自然卷
坐在巷口的那对男女
紧紧的抱在一起
一动也不动的呆在那里
时间好像跟他们没关系
是什么样的心情什么样的心情
难道这就是爱情
啦啦啦啦...
坐在巷口的那对男女
脸上没有表情
路灯一盏一盏的熄灭
他们始终没有说上半句
是什么样的情绪什么样的情绪
难道这就是爱情
啦啦啦啦...
让人又哭又笑抓摸不定
让人飞翔让人坠落谷底
喔难道这就是爱情
坐在巷口的那对男女
笑声从来没停
老师叫你上台介绍自己
也没见你那么充满自信
是什么样的勇气什么样的勇气
我想这就是爱情
啦啦啦啦...
夜的诗人:"
It's getting tougher to be male and single. You end up always going out with the same lads. And as time passes, the pool of lads willing to go out with you get smaller and the good women of the world have all fallen prey to bad men. You realise that the getting-laid-in-pubs stories are all fabricated and that despite true love can wait, it didn't actually wait for you.
With slightly more time on my hands this semester, and new hobbies that are keeping me mentally alive, I naively ask the blokes to join me, only to find out that work-life balance is not on anybody's priority. Their idea of life is probably net-gaming and mugging. Maybe it's also a good thing I'm not exactly 'academically useful', except for the resources of tutorial solutions and lab reports. If not I might need to entertain questions that should be directed to tutors but conveniently lavished on me, because I'd be much easier to approach. But since it will never happen, so never mind.
In the meantime, I shall always have problems finding jogging buddies (who will kindly slowdown and wait for me) or badminton partners. And should anyone of those I know I can turn to, decides to concentrate on their studies or go steady, I will have trouble keeping up with my favourite activities liao.
Couple friends are usually as fun to go out with as the same-gender singles. Nobody will harbour hidden agenda about one another and so in the outing, everyone can let down their guards and have good fun. However, avoid giving too much attention to either one of them. You will have trouble if you are getting too close to the girl or deprived the girl's attention from her guy.
But sometimes as the extra person, you really won't want to get involved in their bickerings if they have any. Sometimes, they have had an argument prior to meeting you and one of them wants someone neutral to justify his/her point of view. It's so difficult to find a politically correct answer that would satisfy both of them. And no matter what you really think, you must never take sides to avoid irking either one of them. If not, you will have trouble lugging a sulking party along.
And also, learn to intepret when is your presence unwelcomed anymore. Otherwise, just bear with all the lovey-duvey and the feeling of being left out.
Just stick to your bachelor lads, lah.
Until you got your steady.
"
taxi taker at 7:51 PM